The Code of the Extraordinary Mind by Vishen Lakhiani.

Attaching one’s happiness to goals can sometimes lead to fear of failure and the subsequent setting of overly cautious objectives. In “The Code of the Extraordinary Mind”, Vishen Lakhiani introduces a two-phase goal-setting method. First, he suggests establishing internal self-fuelled goals that one can control, which guarantees a consistent source of happiness. Secondly, Lakhiani encourages pondering three central questions to facilitate personal growth: the experiences one desires without restrictions, how one must evolve to achieve them, and how this growth benefits the wider world. By distinguishing these self-fuelled goals from ambitious aspirations, individuals can consistently attain happiness and strive for greater accomplishments without fear.